Men’s Fellowship

Offers the men in our Parish spiritual enrichment and fellowship.

Additional Information:

The goal of the various STM Men’s Fellowship opportunities is to bring together like-minded men with a growing hunger for God. This will give the men of our Parish and the surrounding community an opportunity for fellowship and discussion, and to grow through spiritual bonding with other men; taking into consideration the spiritual needs and experiences that are particular to men. These gatherings of men will promote, support, strengthen, and help maximize the spiritual growth of the men of St. Thomas More Parish by taking responsibility for our faith formation and by offering support through fellowship, prayer, scripture reading, communication, and networking. As Catholic men united, we can grow to be better sons, husbands, fathers, and brothers in Christ.



The annual Men’s Retreat for the “Everyday Guy” will be held October 13-15 at Green Oaks Ranch in Vista.

This year we are featuring four regular guys from the Parish giving talks on “Becoming the Best You Can Be” by relating their own experiences in various roles.
Cy Kellett, the host of Catholic Answers Live will be the MC of this retreat.
To get more information or to register, click HERE.

For more information, contact Deacon John Fredette at email or at 760-758-4100 x104.


iHunger is an interactive Catholic men’s fellowship group that meets Saturday mornings for breakfast, fellowship, and a great message. To keep informed of the schedule and of what’s going on with iHunger via SMS text messages, Text iHunger to 84576

iHunger Meets every Saturday from 6:45-8:15am in the lower level of St. Thomas More (we are off over the summer). Feel free to drop in and check it out!
St. Thomas More Catholic Church, 1450 South Melrose Drive, Oceanside - (lower level).

To register or for more information, contact Deacon John Fredette at email or at 760-758-4100 x104.


If you find yourself thirsty for occasional fellowship over a beer at a local micro-brewery, or taking a day hike, or going to a ball game together with some other great men from the parish, check out iThirst and find out what’s happening with the men … to keep informed of what’s going on with iThirst via SMS text messages, Text iThirst to 84576

iThirst meets randomly a few times each month at various locations, the men are notified of what going on by opting into the text messaging group. To find out what’s going on or to get more information, contact Deacon John Fredette at email or at 760-758-4100 x104.

Time Requirements:

Includes weekly (Saturdays at 6:45am), monthly, and annual activities.

Contact Info:

Dcn. John Fredette
Phone: (760) 758-4100